When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate "self confidence" with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they're likely to make more money, that's simply not true.

While it's a given, women actually look for successful men because they're more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you're both equals.

When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people - those who have it and others who simply don't. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be "self confident", or motivated if you would like to call it that.

Take heart in knowing that you're a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who's confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!

The next step is making a decision about where you really want your life to go. Most people would like to have wealth and position, but very few are able to acquire these things. It is much better to set reachable goals for yourself, and your sense of accomplishment can be satisfied when those goals are reached.

Look carefully at your abilities and ambitions, and try to match one to the other. You may have the ambition of being a star quarterback on a winning football team, but your stature and talent will never allow you to realize that ambition. It is far more satisfying to work toward a goal that is well within your range of ability.

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One of the easiest things you can do to reduce energy consumption in your home is to insulate walls, lofts, attics, and between-floor spaces. Do not assume that these areas were already insulated when you purchased your home, particularly if your home is over twenty years old. Have these areas inspected for proper insulation coverage, as well as to identify the type of insulation used. Some older types of insulation used materials that have since been deemed harmful to home environments, to your health, and to the world at large. Consider having this type of insulation replaced throughout the house.

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Try What Ails You
To Relieve The Symptoms

Homeopathic medicine practitioners believe that a symptom is little more than the body’s defense against stress. Therefore, they take the approach that finding a substance that behaves in the same way that the body does – that substance can be used to fight off the ailment or infection. Take a walk through a health food, or nutritional supplement store, and you are bound to see a homeopathic remedy for many common health problems.

There are several foods that you can eat for breakfast, even leftovers from supper if they are sufficient. You can eat bagels, pizza with fruit juice, pretzels, or the normal bacon and eggs that breakfast is known for. Most foods are a snap to prepare, and won't take you but a few minutes.

The next time you are in a hurry in the morning, remember that you are probably about to skip the most important meal of the day. If you follow the tips above, you'll find that you have plenty of time for breakfast.

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Sit Back And Remember

Why is it, that any holiday, time off, or event, someone is sick? Do they plan it that way? I was sitting today, pondering, reminissing, and it came to my attention that every function I have ever attended had at least one of my family members sitting with the sniffles.

I was 7 years old. It was Christmas time, and I was sick with my appendix. That was a good one. Is it coincidence? Or is there some greater evil out there that enjoys watching suffering in times of joy. We should find him, and tell him we are NOT impressed.

Timing is everything. There is a point, in every persons life, where everything seems to go wrong, and all you can do is sit there and watch it happen. But maybe it's a good thing. In fact, if nothing goes wrong, we won't know what's right. Perhaps what we need to do is change those tears of helplessness into tears of joy. That would be weird. "I love it when I get scarlet fever" Woops.

Here is a good one. This time, evil chose to be more mean than ever. I will tell you the holiday AFTER I tell you what happened. I had the chicken pox, my youngest sister had the chicken pox, my other sister had scarlet fever, and my parents were sharing the flu. Get this.... Thanksgiving. That's right. Usually at Thanksgiving time we go around the table, taking turns saying thanks for whatever you are thankful for. What a task. I was thankful for oatmeal baths!

It's funny how we are tested in such ironic ways. The outcome of our battles with nature shows what kind of person we can become, but what happens during the battle defines what kind of person we really are.